I believe I have completed my Christmas shopping. And, not only completed it, I have it all wrapped and under the tree! Well, except for Tom's things. I mean, what I have for him has been wrapped, but not under the tree. We usually just put the others under the tree and keep ours out - and bring them out Christmas morning along with our stockings for each other. Tom has been a difficult one to buy for this year. Come to think about it, most everyone has been difficult to buy for this year! I would much rather look at things to buy that they 'want' or 'need' - but except for the few lists I received, it has been a guessing game. Tom gave me a verbal list - but they weren't 'fun' things. There is nothing he nor I need and although I have some 'wants' - they are not in the Christmas budget. Still, I know that whatever I receive I will love. I always do.
I baked nearly all day yesterday. Made only one batch of cookies and made several breads, muffins and tiny bite-size muffins of my cranberry pumpkin nut 'bread'. I love this bread, and if you heat it in the microwave for about ten seconds before eating a slice - yum, the cranberries will burst open with flavor. Sent some with Tom to give to Ralph as they are meeting for breakfast this morning. The rest went in the freezer. Today I want to make my bread and butter pickles. Got the cucumbers and onions setting on the counter, waiting for me to get started. Need to put the jars on to boil yet. I enjoy doing this too. Plus the pickles are soooo good!
I probably won't make my salsa this year to give away... unless I can think of someone who would want it. One son still has some of when his daughter was here and made some. I can't believe he still has it. We go through our salsa within a very short time. Still, Tom likes it so perhaps I need to go ahead and make it. I will try to can some of it.... I have before, but I'm always leery of doing that. My salsa, after about 3-4 weeks, will begin to ferment in the jar. Bubbles will form on the inside of the jar, and if you open it, this bubbling 'stuff' will begin to foam and flow over the top of the jar. LOL Needless to say, by then we just throw it away. Doesn't usually get to that stage anymore - only one time when I forgot a jar in the back of the refrigerator.
So - today will be bread and butter pickle day - and once that is completed, will decide what I want to do. So - technically, I am 'done' with Christmas preparations. Until I decide to bake some more. I mentioned making snickerdoodles this afternoon. Mmmmm. Very few places can make snickerdoodles like mine. I still need to get the grandchildren over here to make Christmas mice and cookies. I still have lots of cookie dough and pretzels and chocolate and all the things needed for a fun time. I need to contact the parents and see if I can't get them in the evening for a couple hours - perhaps right after school.
My brother has issued the challenge for a half marathon walking our canal come March. My little sissy and I said we were 'in'. But, in talking with her later, she has things going on at the time he suggested, so I suggested perhaps making it June and us going to Indy. Will have to check that out with bro and see what he wants to do.
Of course my 'free' time for vacations will depend on if and when I get a job. I must admit, I haven't looked that hard just yet. When I made the decision to 'retire early', I really wanted to take November and December off to play and just regain my life. And, I feel I have been able to do just that. I feel my time off has helped me physically (although I still need to go to the gym), emotionally (I'm a lot less crabby, I think) and spiritually (I get to spend what I call 'Quality' time with God each morning). It has also helped relationally in that Tom has learned to give me some space (as I have him) and because I am here all the time, he doesn't have to fight for time with me.
I have applied for one position a few weeks ago and need to follow up on it today. I have checked the want ads in the paper. I see a few out there I could apply for, but I truly want to stay in my 'home area' so that I don't have to spend all my time on the road each morning. I still have one lead I have not followed up on yet, from a medical director whom I used to work with. I am facing a little over two weeks when I will not have medical insurance for me. Need to find something to cover me, so am checking into single insurance until I get a job. Praise God I am healthy and do not need constant medical care. Tom already has medicare and has his supplement plan all set up for January 1 so he is taken care of. I'm still too young for medicare! :-)
So, how are you doing on your Christmas shopping and baking? You still have plenty of time, yes, but don't wait until the last minute so that your Christmas is filled with rushing about and no time for reflection
Blessings!
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Saturday, December 10, 2011
Baking with the grandchildren...and other Christmas memories
I love this time of year - not that it couldn't happen any other time - but I get the grandchildren and we bake cookies, make Christmas mice, and whatever else we want to come up with. Two of the grandchildren (Tricia and Stevie) came over last night and we baked cookies. Meant to make the Christmas mice, but unfortunately, I screwed up. I bought a jar of halves of maraschino cherries - not the whole cherries with the stem! So - will need to go out today and find the cherries I need. Tricia and Stevie did make a peppermint cookie house - and while we were out shopping enroute to my house, they were able to pick up some Christmas gifts for their mom and dad. That was fun too. We ended the evening watching "Miracle on 34th Street" (the old one). Mom and Dad arrived to pick them up about 5 minutes before the end of it so we made them stay and watch it too.
Since we didn't get the Christmas mice made last night, Tricia and Stevie will get to come back for another evening of fun. I am also looking forward to getting Bethany, Ralphie, Nathan and David one night and also Cody, Tommy and Hailey. I have so much fun with the grandchildren! We used to make crafts but just can't do that anymore. Now it is baking - and I think they enjoy that too.
My difficulty this year with getting the grandchildren is not that I'm working and can't find time for them - they are in school until December 23rd this year! Will have to figure out something so that we can continue this favored tradition of mine that has the grandchildren coming to the house to bake cookies. The best part? I get to spend time with them - and for them, getting to take the cookies home! It's a win-win situation. Plus mom and dad get time too!
Tom and I have slowly been going through our Christmas movies I like to watch each December. We started back in November with "White Christmas" - watching it with Bethany. There are just some classics you have to be sure to pass on to the grandchildren. "Miracle on 34th Street" is another classic. Of course some of the younger grandchildren also go for 'Gumby" at Christmastime and a few of the other 'cartoons'. Then there is 'It's a Wonderful Life'. People who get down on themselves need to watch that one - they can realize how their lives do affect other people.
I wonder if my children remember watching the movies and if they started it in their home.....probably not. My parents didn't either - these were just some of the Christmas movies I love to watch. I don't remember any real Christmas traditions my parents had, other than my step-father pounding on our bedroom doors early in the morning and telling us Santa Claus had been there and to get up. Oh, and mama always fixed a big breakfast. As a family with 11 children (I had 3 real brothers, two real sisters, one half brother, two step brothers and two step sisters) it was pretty crowded when it came to everyone getting together Christmas morning. Once married and out of the house with our own families, the 'real' and 'step' divided up. My side (the 'real' side) took Christmas Eve with the stipulation mama still had to cook her delicious Christmas breakfast. I may be wrong, but I remember mama's fried chicken, biscuits and gravy, ham...and I'm sure there was a lot more. The 'steps' took Christmas morning.
The first Christmas after my real dad passed away in 1957, I remember a family from the church, Lindsay and Myrtle Ganote, taking us children shopping and buying us a toy and an outfit for Christmas. I remember I got a doll that year. I wish I would remember that more often. How many single parents are out there due to a death of a loved spouse and are struggling to bring joy to Christmas for their children? With divorce, the children still have two parents - and probably get more gifts than before. But with death, not only is the spouse who is left lonely and struggling with their own things, but trying to make the first holiday special still. Lord, if there is someone I need to help, please bring them to mind.
I know we have Angel Tree for those who are in prison so that their children can have a gift from them, but this is different. They are in prison for things they did wrong. Death is final. Lord, please bring to mind to those who read this blog, someone they can take a meal to, buy a small gift for, give some financial support. How can You use us this year, Lord?
My mind is reviewing Christmas pasts.... I remember my 14th Christmas.....I wanted a 'hope chest'. Some of you readers may not know what that is. It is a big wooden 'chest' that girls would put in items for when they got married; or just special things they wanted to keep. I wanted one so badly and my older sister had already received hers years before, along with my step sisters. It was my turn. Christmas morning came. It wasn't out there for me. I received the clothes, and I'm not sure what else. I remember feeling so sad. After all the gifts were opened and people were starting to move about and put things away, my stepfather disappeared outside with someone. I didn't pay any attention. Then they came walking in with my Lane Cedar Chest! I was so happy then! I still have that cedar chest too. It still holds treasured memories of different things. Over the years I've passed on to my children some that I hope they have hung on to for their children. Yeah, I am a 'passer-on' person. Sometimes that is good. Sometimes it is good we let it 'die'.
Ok - I need to get off here and get going rather than thinking of 'Christmas past' - lots to do today before going to watch a grandson in a Christmas play tonight. Now THAT is going to be a special memory too!
Who can you bless this Christmas that needs a blessing? Stop and ask God to bring someone to mind whom you can bring some joy to this year.
Blessings!
Since we didn't get the Christmas mice made last night, Tricia and Stevie will get to come back for another evening of fun. I am also looking forward to getting Bethany, Ralphie, Nathan and David one night and also Cody, Tommy and Hailey. I have so much fun with the grandchildren! We used to make crafts but just can't do that anymore. Now it is baking - and I think they enjoy that too.
My difficulty this year with getting the grandchildren is not that I'm working and can't find time for them - they are in school until December 23rd this year! Will have to figure out something so that we can continue this favored tradition of mine that has the grandchildren coming to the house to bake cookies. The best part? I get to spend time with them - and for them, getting to take the cookies home! It's a win-win situation. Plus mom and dad get time too!
Tom and I have slowly been going through our Christmas movies I like to watch each December. We started back in November with "White Christmas" - watching it with Bethany. There are just some classics you have to be sure to pass on to the grandchildren. "Miracle on 34th Street" is another classic. Of course some of the younger grandchildren also go for 'Gumby" at Christmastime and a few of the other 'cartoons'. Then there is 'It's a Wonderful Life'. People who get down on themselves need to watch that one - they can realize how their lives do affect other people.
I wonder if my children remember watching the movies and if they started it in their home.....probably not. My parents didn't either - these were just some of the Christmas movies I love to watch. I don't remember any real Christmas traditions my parents had, other than my step-father pounding on our bedroom doors early in the morning and telling us Santa Claus had been there and to get up. Oh, and mama always fixed a big breakfast. As a family with 11 children (I had 3 real brothers, two real sisters, one half brother, two step brothers and two step sisters) it was pretty crowded when it came to everyone getting together Christmas morning. Once married and out of the house with our own families, the 'real' and 'step' divided up. My side (the 'real' side) took Christmas Eve with the stipulation mama still had to cook her delicious Christmas breakfast. I may be wrong, but I remember mama's fried chicken, biscuits and gravy, ham...and I'm sure there was a lot more. The 'steps' took Christmas morning.
The first Christmas after my real dad passed away in 1957, I remember a family from the church, Lindsay and Myrtle Ganote, taking us children shopping and buying us a toy and an outfit for Christmas. I remember I got a doll that year. I wish I would remember that more often. How many single parents are out there due to a death of a loved spouse and are struggling to bring joy to Christmas for their children? With divorce, the children still have two parents - and probably get more gifts than before. But with death, not only is the spouse who is left lonely and struggling with their own things, but trying to make the first holiday special still. Lord, if there is someone I need to help, please bring them to mind.
I know we have Angel Tree for those who are in prison so that their children can have a gift from them, but this is different. They are in prison for things they did wrong. Death is final. Lord, please bring to mind to those who read this blog, someone they can take a meal to, buy a small gift for, give some financial support. How can You use us this year, Lord?
My mind is reviewing Christmas pasts.... I remember my 14th Christmas.....I wanted a 'hope chest'. Some of you readers may not know what that is. It is a big wooden 'chest' that girls would put in items for when they got married; or just special things they wanted to keep. I wanted one so badly and my older sister had already received hers years before, along with my step sisters. It was my turn. Christmas morning came. It wasn't out there for me. I received the clothes, and I'm not sure what else. I remember feeling so sad. After all the gifts were opened and people were starting to move about and put things away, my stepfather disappeared outside with someone. I didn't pay any attention. Then they came walking in with my Lane Cedar Chest! I was so happy then! I still have that cedar chest too. It still holds treasured memories of different things. Over the years I've passed on to my children some that I hope they have hung on to for their children. Yeah, I am a 'passer-on' person. Sometimes that is good. Sometimes it is good we let it 'die'.
Ok - I need to get off here and get going rather than thinking of 'Christmas past' - lots to do today before going to watch a grandson in a Christmas play tonight. Now THAT is going to be a special memory too!
Who can you bless this Christmas that needs a blessing? Stop and ask God to bring someone to mind whom you can bring some joy to this year.
Blessings!
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Still shopping....
One would think that with all the shopping I have done, I would be finished! But, alas, I am not. BUT, I am a lot closer! Spent two hours out shopping this morning, came home to clean up as I was going to pick up two of the grandchildren from school - but while I was in the shower was told I didn't need to pick up. So here I am and I could have gotten a couple more hours shopping done! I'm down to one or two people now. I think. Considering I started out with about 17 or so - that isn't bad at all! That doesn't count who I will bake/can and give to. I hope to start that next week. Want to get all the shopping out of the way first.
I realized last night that I still have the adult stockings to fill. Yeah, I started that (again) a few years back. Not the grandchildren, just the children and their spouses. They may be skimpy this year but will attempt to put some things in. Tom and I still do stockings for each other. My stocking (and his) is about 3 feet long. Ok, maybe 2 1/2 feet. And they are always full Christmas morning. :)
Today is my daughter-in-law's 40th birthday. I must say she is a blessing in our family. She has taught me so much over the years. God has truly blessed me personally by bringing her into our lives. Today is also her mother's birthday - how cool is that!! I wish them both lots of birthday blessings - they both deserve it! I gave my son her birthday gifts the other day - I wonder if I should text him to remind him to give to her!
Whatever I was going to write has escaped me now so guess this is it for today. Hope that you are having a great day.
Blessings!
I realized last night that I still have the adult stockings to fill. Yeah, I started that (again) a few years back. Not the grandchildren, just the children and their spouses. They may be skimpy this year but will attempt to put some things in. Tom and I still do stockings for each other. My stocking (and his) is about 3 feet long. Ok, maybe 2 1/2 feet. And they are always full Christmas morning. :)
Today is my daughter-in-law's 40th birthday. I must say she is a blessing in our family. She has taught me so much over the years. God has truly blessed me personally by bringing her into our lives. Today is also her mother's birthday - how cool is that!! I wish them both lots of birthday blessings - they both deserve it! I gave my son her birthday gifts the other day - I wonder if I should text him to remind him to give to her!
Whatever I was going to write has escaped me now so guess this is it for today. Hope that you are having a great day.
Blessings!
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Things are falling into place....
I finally have lists or ideas from the other two children so hopefully can finish up their family's shopping this week. I want to go out for a bit this morning and try to get some shopping done. I do love shopping when most are at work. I used to take vacation days the first part of December versus around Christmas so that I could shop while everyone else was working. I don't do crowds real well, especially when they are rude and pushy!
Ralph and I did a lot of walking yesterday - sure do wish I had worn my Nike shoes where I could track how far we walked. I was so tired last night from all the walking, unpacking, decorating and wrapping that I slept all through the night! How did you sleep, Ralph? Were you as tired as me?
I completed my task of getting the tree up yesterday, decorated, and nearly all the gifts already purchased (which are not many) wrapped. I have several Christmas items like I mentioned yesterday out around the house. I have a lot of Christmas things I am taking down to Savers this morning. Now to keep in the de-clutter mode and continue to get rid of things! Even with good intentions, and wanting to do it, sometimes it is still hard to 'let go' of some of the 'clutter'. AND, what others may say is clutter, may be a memory for me and until I am ready to let it go, I refuse to get rid of it. (That comment is for those who read this blog and want to tell me what to get rid of!)
Not much to talk about today - needing to scan the job ads, sale ads, load the car with the Saver items and get on the road. Have a meeting early this afternoon so want to get as much done today as I can. I'm looking forward to getting started on my baking and canning! Need to schedule time for the grandchildren to come over and do their baking things too. One of my favorite parts of Christmas - being with the grandchildren. I am blessed!
Are you really busy right now too? Are you still taking time to spend time with God before you hit the road running? Don't forget to give Him your 'first-fruit' of the day... the first hour, if possible. You will never regret giving Him your thoughts, your time, the first part of the day. It does make the day go by much easier when He is in control.
Blessings!
Ralph and I did a lot of walking yesterday - sure do wish I had worn my Nike shoes where I could track how far we walked. I was so tired last night from all the walking, unpacking, decorating and wrapping that I slept all through the night! How did you sleep, Ralph? Were you as tired as me?
I completed my task of getting the tree up yesterday, decorated, and nearly all the gifts already purchased (which are not many) wrapped. I have several Christmas items like I mentioned yesterday out around the house. I have a lot of Christmas things I am taking down to Savers this morning. Now to keep in the de-clutter mode and continue to get rid of things! Even with good intentions, and wanting to do it, sometimes it is still hard to 'let go' of some of the 'clutter'. AND, what others may say is clutter, may be a memory for me and until I am ready to let it go, I refuse to get rid of it. (That comment is for those who read this blog and want to tell me what to get rid of!)
Not much to talk about today - needing to scan the job ads, sale ads, load the car with the Saver items and get on the road. Have a meeting early this afternoon so want to get as much done today as I can. I'm looking forward to getting started on my baking and canning! Need to schedule time for the grandchildren to come over and do their baking things too. One of my favorite parts of Christmas - being with the grandchildren. I am blessed!
Are you really busy right now too? Are you still taking time to spend time with God before you hit the road running? Don't forget to give Him your 'first-fruit' of the day... the first hour, if possible. You will never regret giving Him your thoughts, your time, the first part of the day. It does make the day go by much easier when He is in control.
Blessings!
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
No, I still do not have favorites.....
but, I sure did enjoy spending the day with my middle child today. We did a lot of walking and a lot of shopping and I enjoyed it a lot. He even took me to lunch at a place he liked and I had not been to before. All in all, this is a day I will treasure. Thank you, Ralph!
I had hubby bring in ALL the Christmas items and boxes we had stored out in the shed - and I cleaned out the storage closet. We have LOTS going to Savers tomorrow. I decided I needed to get rid of some clutter - even though it comes out only once a year. I don't put everything out - and if I'm not using it - why keep it! So, the Christmas tree is up and all our ornaments are on it. I thought I had given all the grandchildren their ornaments last year from all the years we have given them. (will explain below) But - to my surprise, I found several bags of ornaments with the grandchildren's name on it. Guess I will need to get them sent out so that they can put on their own tree.
Ok - the Christmas ornaments for the grandchildren. Years ago, when my children were born, my in-laws started the tradition of giving each child an ornament every year - so that when they got married or moved out and had their very own tree, they would have their very own ornaments to put on it. I started that tradition when each of my grandchildren were born. Obviously the 20 years old has more than the 5 years old, but it is still a start. Yes, I'm still giving an ornament out - but since we don't put up a 'grandchildren tree' anymore, they may as well put on their own tree. Yeah, we used to have two trees. (Actually at one time we had five) The smaller tree was the 'grandchildren tree' and they would hang their ornaments on it every year. Then we would make gifts for their parents, wrap and put under that tree for their parents to open on Christmas morning when they came over. We stopped doing that a few years back as I had run out of ideas for the grandchildren to make for their parents. So - now when they come over we bake cookies, make Christmas mice, or I find some other treat for them to make - and take home.
Ironically, we also found the container that has the grandchildren's Christmas tree in it. I wonder if anyone needs it - if not, it will go to Savers as well. Will have to check with everyone. I have wreaths and a few other little things - I just can't put everything out anymore. Still, I do have lots of things setting out. Precious memories on several ones, like the Santa sitting on a train that I bought the year after my brother, who loved trains, died. I have the Santa sleeping in the bed - and snoring - that my mama had put out every year. I have a stuffed animal I named 'Aspen' that gets put out - a gift from my sister-in-law and brother-in-law when we did a late November trip to Lake of the Woods. Have a Santa that won't stop laughing that my sissy sent me last year. Another dog on a sleigh that sings and barks from the in-laws. I love Christmas, I love the TRUE meaning of Christmas, and I love the celebration of the holiday. Christmas is my favorite time of year.
I hope to finish up my shopping this week so that I can start my baking and canning next week. Have picked up cucumbers and onions to make my bread and butter pickles. I don't have to make as many this year I guess with not working. Oh, I did find a 'white elephant' gift to take for the Finance Christmas party that I was invited to later this month. I hope everything will work out so that I can go.
So how are things coming along with your Christmas shopping? Are you caught up in all the hustle and bustle of the holiday season - and have you stopped to take time to put Christ back into Christmas? What are your plans up until then? Lots of shopping yet to do? Whatever you decide to do - keep in mind what the REAL reason for this season is. Celebrate Jesus!
Blessings!
I had hubby bring in ALL the Christmas items and boxes we had stored out in the shed - and I cleaned out the storage closet. We have LOTS going to Savers tomorrow. I decided I needed to get rid of some clutter - even though it comes out only once a year. I don't put everything out - and if I'm not using it - why keep it! So, the Christmas tree is up and all our ornaments are on it. I thought I had given all the grandchildren their ornaments last year from all the years we have given them. (will explain below) But - to my surprise, I found several bags of ornaments with the grandchildren's name on it. Guess I will need to get them sent out so that they can put on their own tree.
Ok - the Christmas ornaments for the grandchildren. Years ago, when my children were born, my in-laws started the tradition of giving each child an ornament every year - so that when they got married or moved out and had their very own tree, they would have their very own ornaments to put on it. I started that tradition when each of my grandchildren were born. Obviously the 20 years old has more than the 5 years old, but it is still a start. Yes, I'm still giving an ornament out - but since we don't put up a 'grandchildren tree' anymore, they may as well put on their own tree. Yeah, we used to have two trees. (Actually at one time we had five) The smaller tree was the 'grandchildren tree' and they would hang their ornaments on it every year. Then we would make gifts for their parents, wrap and put under that tree for their parents to open on Christmas morning when they came over. We stopped doing that a few years back as I had run out of ideas for the grandchildren to make for their parents. So - now when they come over we bake cookies, make Christmas mice, or I find some other treat for them to make - and take home.
Ironically, we also found the container that has the grandchildren's Christmas tree in it. I wonder if anyone needs it - if not, it will go to Savers as well. Will have to check with everyone. I have wreaths and a few other little things - I just can't put everything out anymore. Still, I do have lots of things setting out. Precious memories on several ones, like the Santa sitting on a train that I bought the year after my brother, who loved trains, died. I have the Santa sleeping in the bed - and snoring - that my mama had put out every year. I have a stuffed animal I named 'Aspen' that gets put out - a gift from my sister-in-law and brother-in-law when we did a late November trip to Lake of the Woods. Have a Santa that won't stop laughing that my sissy sent me last year. Another dog on a sleigh that sings and barks from the in-laws. I love Christmas, I love the TRUE meaning of Christmas, and I love the celebration of the holiday. Christmas is my favorite time of year.
I hope to finish up my shopping this week so that I can start my baking and canning next week. Have picked up cucumbers and onions to make my bread and butter pickles. I don't have to make as many this year I guess with not working. Oh, I did find a 'white elephant' gift to take for the Finance Christmas party that I was invited to later this month. I hope everything will work out so that I can go.
So how are things coming along with your Christmas shopping? Are you caught up in all the hustle and bustle of the holiday season - and have you stopped to take time to put Christ back into Christmas? What are your plans up until then? Lots of shopping yet to do? Whatever you decide to do - keep in mind what the REAL reason for this season is. Celebrate Jesus!
Blessings!
Monday, December 5, 2011
Brrrrr Monday morning!
I told my hubby this morning I am so glad that God gave me the opportunity to retire in the coolest part of the year - it is cold out this morning and the thought of having to go out in the cold to go to a job - brrrr! I know I will be in it before too long anyway, but for now, it is nice staying in until it warms up (maybe) a little bit. I think the high is to be 54 today. Maybe I will just stay in! I just 'don't do cold' real well.
Got to visit for awhile with a girlfriend from work last night. It was fun catching up on things with her - and hear her tell me that I am really missed at the office! That is always good to hear. I commented a few times when I visited awhile back to 'make me an offer I can't refuse' - then I slap my head and think 'WHAT are you thinking?!!' LOL God gave me this wonderful opportunity and I want to go back? I really did not like the long drive to and from work. Lots of people on the road that don't know how to drive. And they probably think the same about me at times.
Being off work this past month has really been good for me. I feel I am more relaxed and pretty much rested - except I didn't sleep well last night. Had planned to go to the gym with Tom this morning, but I was awake at midnight, finally got up at 1AM, went back to bed at 2AM, was awake at 4AM - finally got up around 6AM I think. Dozing off and on while I was in bed didn't give me enough rest. I may need to take a nap this afternoon! Bummer! I don't know why I couldn't sleep - I was sleepy and tired when I went to bed. Am I getting too relaxed? I know we need to get back into our workout/walking routine. We did so well the first part of November and after that it seems like one thing after another kept us from it. I'm re-evaluating how to get my exercise in.
One of the things I thought about during my wakeful time was New Years Day. To set the scene for you to see, I am a woman who loves traditions, loves doing things with my family, loves being with my children and grandchildren. It brings me so much joy to just be near them. I wish I could be more often other than just birthdays and holidays. But, they have their lives to live and so do I. Perhaps that is what got me thinking about this.
As I mentioned in an earlier blog, we do get together some time throughout Christmas Day, when it is convenient for them. The boys usually come here and bring their families around lunch time. Later in the afternoon we all head over to the daughter's house. We all stay there until later that evening then again go our separate ways. New Years is another holiday we always got together. Well, I guess it was about 7 years ago when Tom wanted 'us' to spend New Years Day together and we didn't do anything but stayed home. I was so depressed and so sad. It wasn't what I wanted; I wanted to be with the grandchildren.
But this year it is different. I mean, I STILL want to be with my children and my grandchildren, but the grandchildren are older now and don't 'want' to just be with grandma. And that is ok. I need to let go. I need to let my children have their own precious memories made for their children. Of course that means that mom doesn't make the BBQ ribs and the coleslaw with the quarter in it. No black-eyed peas, which I am sure will break their heart. Most of my children and their spouses work - so this is a real holiday for them. True, I did most of the cooking and they just had to eat - but it is a day they could be relaxing at home instead of driving wherever we plan to meet (which this year could possibly be an entirely different place!) and then watch TV all afternoon - or, perhaps play scrabble. :-)
So - my dear children. As you read this, please give me your thoughts. What would you like to do? I don't think it will be possible at Mary's this year - and Stuart you have to drive so far - and Delnora would possibly appreciate an extra day at home just to relax before going back to work. Should I fix things here and make it 'come and go'? - which I am willing to do. Unfortunately, we don't have anything for the grandchildren to do here - no computers for them to play on. It can get boring for some. But, if everyone doesn't arrive at once, we could possibly keep peace by doing it in stages. Or, perhaps we need to just see if someone needs help that day and volunteer to help with what is needed. I can always fix a pot a chili to take to someone's house so we can continue helping in other areas.
Trying not to say too much and yet say enough. So, my children, please give me your thoughts. Since Tom does have me to himself most of the time now, it won't be like before. This is one of the things I was thinking about during my wakeful hours. It is my New Years gift to you. Some traditions are ok to stop, and to create new ones. This may be one of them - not to say that another year we may agree to get together for mom's BBQ ribs, coleslaw and black-eyed peas.
I love you all so much and love being with you. I pray blessings for each of you, especially in this coming year. Sounds like there may be changes happening. Whatever you do, wherever you go, remember always that I love you and am praying for each of you.
Waiting to hear from you before I go buy the ribs!
Blessings!
Got to visit for awhile with a girlfriend from work last night. It was fun catching up on things with her - and hear her tell me that I am really missed at the office! That is always good to hear. I commented a few times when I visited awhile back to 'make me an offer I can't refuse' - then I slap my head and think 'WHAT are you thinking?!!' LOL God gave me this wonderful opportunity and I want to go back? I really did not like the long drive to and from work. Lots of people on the road that don't know how to drive. And they probably think the same about me at times.
Being off work this past month has really been good for me. I feel I am more relaxed and pretty much rested - except I didn't sleep well last night. Had planned to go to the gym with Tom this morning, but I was awake at midnight, finally got up at 1AM, went back to bed at 2AM, was awake at 4AM - finally got up around 6AM I think. Dozing off and on while I was in bed didn't give me enough rest. I may need to take a nap this afternoon! Bummer! I don't know why I couldn't sleep - I was sleepy and tired when I went to bed. Am I getting too relaxed? I know we need to get back into our workout/walking routine. We did so well the first part of November and after that it seems like one thing after another kept us from it. I'm re-evaluating how to get my exercise in.
One of the things I thought about during my wakeful time was New Years Day. To set the scene for you to see, I am a woman who loves traditions, loves doing things with my family, loves being with my children and grandchildren. It brings me so much joy to just be near them. I wish I could be more often other than just birthdays and holidays. But, they have their lives to live and so do I. Perhaps that is what got me thinking about this.
As I mentioned in an earlier blog, we do get together some time throughout Christmas Day, when it is convenient for them. The boys usually come here and bring their families around lunch time. Later in the afternoon we all head over to the daughter's house. We all stay there until later that evening then again go our separate ways. New Years is another holiday we always got together. Well, I guess it was about 7 years ago when Tom wanted 'us' to spend New Years Day together and we didn't do anything but stayed home. I was so depressed and so sad. It wasn't what I wanted; I wanted to be with the grandchildren.
But this year it is different. I mean, I STILL want to be with my children and my grandchildren, but the grandchildren are older now and don't 'want' to just be with grandma. And that is ok. I need to let go. I need to let my children have their own precious memories made for their children. Of course that means that mom doesn't make the BBQ ribs and the coleslaw with the quarter in it. No black-eyed peas, which I am sure will break their heart. Most of my children and their spouses work - so this is a real holiday for them. True, I did most of the cooking and they just had to eat - but it is a day they could be relaxing at home instead of driving wherever we plan to meet (which this year could possibly be an entirely different place!) and then watch TV all afternoon - or, perhaps play scrabble. :-)
So - my dear children. As you read this, please give me your thoughts. What would you like to do? I don't think it will be possible at Mary's this year - and Stuart you have to drive so far - and Delnora would possibly appreciate an extra day at home just to relax before going back to work. Should I fix things here and make it 'come and go'? - which I am willing to do. Unfortunately, we don't have anything for the grandchildren to do here - no computers for them to play on. It can get boring for some. But, if everyone doesn't arrive at once, we could possibly keep peace by doing it in stages. Or, perhaps we need to just see if someone needs help that day and volunteer to help with what is needed. I can always fix a pot a chili to take to someone's house so we can continue helping in other areas.
Trying not to say too much and yet say enough. So, my children, please give me your thoughts. Since Tom does have me to himself most of the time now, it won't be like before. This is one of the things I was thinking about during my wakeful hours. It is my New Years gift to you. Some traditions are ok to stop, and to create new ones. This may be one of them - not to say that another year we may agree to get together for mom's BBQ ribs, coleslaw and black-eyed peas.
I love you all so much and love being with you. I pray blessings for each of you, especially in this coming year. Sounds like there may be changes happening. Whatever you do, wherever you go, remember always that I love you and am praying for each of you.
Waiting to hear from you before I go buy the ribs!
Blessings!
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Holiday Confusion? Part II
Alas, Amazon responded this afternoon! I have received a nice note thanking me for notifying them of the received packages, and they sent me five return labels to have the boxes returned. So, now that I don't get to keep them, I guess I will share what they contained. Although it is fun to keep the kids guessing - only two asked what they were.
We received in the first box - 4 Seiko men's watches.
In the 2nd box a watch by Invicta
In the 3rd box a watch by Ann Klein
In the 4th box a watch by Stuhrling
In the 5th box a watch by Michael Kors
What in the world would we do with 8 watches? I DO love watches and have several but all of these seemed to be for a very large wrist and would not fit mine, for sure! I have printed the return labels and will get these returned tomorrow back to Amazon. I'm glad it was that easy.
Still have lots of shopping to get done. It sure would help if I had lists - although with the two grandson lists that I have, it's hard to choose what to buy. I wanted to get a musical instrument for one of them, as requested, but I'm finding a good one is beyond my budget for a grandchild. So - back to square one. And how in the world does a grandparent know what DS game they don't have and what to buy? Just a 'DS game' sure does not help when someone as DS-illiterate as I am needs to buy a gift. Oh well.
Been also checking the ads for a Doberman. Yes, I want a Doberman. Female, young. Would prefer spaded already. I did find a place a few weeks ago that I have to complete an application for and they will come interview us to see if we could take care of a Doberman. Just the entire email conversation has me reluctant to contact them. But, if I haven't found one elsewhere after Christmas, I may send in the application. I'm just a private person and don't care for people asking personal information. I may end up going with a puppy just so I can get what I want. Wanted one already trained, spaded and all the other stuff, but my issue is they must like kids. We have lots of grandchildren who love dogs and I don't want the dog - nor the grandchildren - to be afraid of each other. Will see how this ends up.
Today is Sunday and it has been a cold day (if you call 50 + degrees cold) and after church and doing shopping for Angel Tree I have stayed at home. Will probably watch another Christmas movie or a chick flick later this evening. We went on a personal retreat up in Northern Arizona Thursday - Saturday then spent time in Prescott Valley - in the snow! Yes, we had to drive home in the snow. Tried to download a photo onto facebook of the snow on the trees but after about 20 tries I gave up. I need my granddaughter to help me I guess.
So how are you preparing for Christmas? Done any shopping yet? Got any great ideas? Hopefully we can get our Christmas things out tomorrow and start putting things out. I want to go through and get rid of a lot of the decorations I don't use anymore. I gave the grandchildren all their Christmas ornaments from years past last year - and the one from this year. Now it is just us!
Blessings!
We received in the first box - 4 Seiko men's watches.
In the 2nd box a watch by Invicta
In the 3rd box a watch by Ann Klein
In the 4th box a watch by Stuhrling
In the 5th box a watch by Michael Kors
What in the world would we do with 8 watches? I DO love watches and have several but all of these seemed to be for a very large wrist and would not fit mine, for sure! I have printed the return labels and will get these returned tomorrow back to Amazon. I'm glad it was that easy.
Still have lots of shopping to get done. It sure would help if I had lists - although with the two grandson lists that I have, it's hard to choose what to buy. I wanted to get a musical instrument for one of them, as requested, but I'm finding a good one is beyond my budget for a grandchild. So - back to square one. And how in the world does a grandparent know what DS game they don't have and what to buy? Just a 'DS game' sure does not help when someone as DS-illiterate as I am needs to buy a gift. Oh well.
Been also checking the ads for a Doberman. Yes, I want a Doberman. Female, young. Would prefer spaded already. I did find a place a few weeks ago that I have to complete an application for and they will come interview us to see if we could take care of a Doberman. Just the entire email conversation has me reluctant to contact them. But, if I haven't found one elsewhere after Christmas, I may send in the application. I'm just a private person and don't care for people asking personal information. I may end up going with a puppy just so I can get what I want. Wanted one already trained, spaded and all the other stuff, but my issue is they must like kids. We have lots of grandchildren who love dogs and I don't want the dog - nor the grandchildren - to be afraid of each other. Will see how this ends up.
Today is Sunday and it has been a cold day (if you call 50 + degrees cold) and after church and doing shopping for Angel Tree I have stayed at home. Will probably watch another Christmas movie or a chick flick later this evening. We went on a personal retreat up in Northern Arizona Thursday - Saturday then spent time in Prescott Valley - in the snow! Yes, we had to drive home in the snow. Tried to download a photo onto facebook of the snow on the trees but after about 20 tries I gave up. I need my granddaughter to help me I guess.
So how are you preparing for Christmas? Done any shopping yet? Got any great ideas? Hopefully we can get our Christmas things out tomorrow and start putting things out. I want to go through and get rid of a lot of the decorations I don't use anymore. I gave the grandchildren all their Christmas ornaments from years past last year - and the one from this year. Now it is just us!
Blessings!
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